Defining & Pursuing Aligned Goals

Not every goal is yours to carry. Let’s figure out what actually belongs to you.

Goals Should Feel Like Purpose, Not Pressure

this is you if…

You're chasing goals because they used to matter...

You're burnt out from checking boxes that never feel fulfilling...

You don’t quite trust your ability to reach your goals...

You don’t need more pressure. You need clarity.

“The right goals energize you. The wrong ones wear you out.”

I’m here to help you realign your goals with who you are now, not who you were or who others expect you to be.

Redefine Success on Your Terms

“Goals rooted in guilt, shame, or people-pleasing are rarely worth achieving.”

My approach to goal-setting isn’t about hustle or hype. It’s about alignment.

Whether you’re shifting careers, rebuilding confidence, or trying to finally do that one thing you keep putting off, your goals should support your life, not consume it.

Let’s clarify what matters most, and then make a plan to move toward it with intention and momentum.

Most Asked Questions

How do I break big goals into action steps?

What if I don’t know what “big goal” I want?

How can I create a goal that really excites me?

Do I share my goals with others or keep them to myself?

What if I’ve already hit a big goal, but I’m still not happy?

How do I stay consistent when life keeps pulling me off track?

These are the real questions I will help you untangle.

Goals FAQ

Journal Prompts to Reconnect with Your Purpose

These prompts are designed to help you clarify your direction and release outdated expectations:

I want to accomplish this goal because it will make me feel like…

I am so proud of who I am becoming because….

Accomplishing this goal will show me….

Spend time with one of these prompts each week, or explore them as part of a monthly reset.

3-Day Goal Alignment Reset

If you feel stuck or overwhelmed, this mini reset will help you reconnect with your values and stop chasing what’s not yours.

Write down every goal you think you “should” have. Cross out any that feel heavy or disconnected.

Identify one goal that actually excites you, even if it’s scary or unconventional.

Take one action toward it, no matter how small. Make the call. Write the first sentence. Open the document.

Want help choosing your next right step?

Watch, Read, or Listen

Recommended
Reading

Atomic Habits by James Clear – My go-to book on how to learn skills on creating goals and making a plan.

The Desire Map by Danielle LaPorte – This book is more about the softer side of looking into your true desires.

Goals by Zig Ziglar – Zig Ziglar is my go-to for speaking about goal setting in the most basic, straightforward, easy-to-read way

Goals are a powerful tool for us to not only challenge ourselves and level up our lives, but the real gift is who we become in the process of achieving the goal

Ready to Set Goals That Reflect Your Growth?

Amy offers 1:1 coaching for high-capacity women who are ready to stop performing and start pursuing aligned, meaningful goals.

Goals Reflection Guide